the $1.6 million dollar kid

The WSJ ran a story in their weekend edition showing how prolific parents are now spending upwards of $1.6 million raising their kids to the age of 17. My first reaction reading the headline was utter horror having one kid and another on the way.

Then as a read the article, I realized it was a bit of hyperbolic fun showing that if parents indulged their kids in every possible indulgence from $2,000 SAT prep classes to $15,000 annual athletic travel budgets to $20,000 a year private school to that ever necessary flat panel tv for the kids bedroom the WSJ could get to $1.6 million. The government estimates that average family spends $276k per child. Paul Kedrosky also was scared but didn’t dive into whether the $1.6 million number was BS.

So let’s take a look. Thinking of my own kids and spending here’s how I think it will break out:
Bigger House – $300k
Food – $500/month/kid x 22 yrs – $264k
Clothing – $1000/year/kid – $44k
Opportunity Cost of Spouse not working – $400k
College (public) – $80k
Parochial School (maybe) $10k total/12 years per- $240k
Misc Activities – $1k per year per kid from age 8 to 18 – $20k
Family Travel – $2k year – $44k
Total – $1.39 million for 2 kids or $695k per kid under a very broad definition of costs associated with them (the house for instance would have come just because my wife and I would have found some excuse to justify it)

Seriously how could a parent spend close to $100,000 per year on a kid? Even more importantly – can you imagine how spoiled that kid would be?

  • mike

    I dunno todd, I think you’re being myopic.

    your spouse is only worth $20k/yr? At any professional silicon valley level, that’s easy to plot at 2-5x that number. That’s a million bucks right there.

    or assume your spouse works. Full time day care is $12-15k year.

    have you bought equipment for /any/ kid sport recently? Your $1k misc gets eaten before ski season is over. ;-)

    I’m not talking about /spoiling/ a kid either. But we live in a world where we don’t play sand-lot stick-ball. We play little league and we go to batting cages and travel to tournaments. cest la vie.

  • http://sawickipedia.com todd

    mike -
    I was assuming $50k per year for 8 years for the wife not working when both kids would be in first grade (full day school).

    I hear ya on activity costs but at $1k it takes a lot of activities to even get to $10k per year from ages 12-18.

    And more importantly – the government and wsj totals exclude opp. cost for not working – they only include child care so I’m including a whole lot more cost and still can’t imagine how you get to $1.6 million.

    I certainly now understand why my parents weren’t so keen on me playing hockey growing up :)

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